False self-images

If you think that you are a miserable person, then you really are. It is you who creates all your sufferings so do not blame others, the ill-fortune or the Gods for this. You feel pain in your body or in your soul because of your own thoughts and power. Is not enough to possess the power but you shall to know how to use it. Your present state reflects your past decisions and thoughts. It is high time to grow up instead of blaming others angrily. The people you meet are just fellow-traveller with only one divine role: holding a mirror to you to help your development. If you cannot stand something in somebody, it is about you. You are the only one who can fix the broken picture that someone else shows you. If you can fix it, you will recover and you may set the other one free as well. It seems so simple but actually, it is not.The ego is so wise in other’s problems, but so blind when it has to discover its own path. As the phrase goes – “Behold the mot in the brother’s eye.” We like to give advice - even unasked -because we think that the cure that helped us (or would help us) can be useful to others too....Silence has a stronger healing effect than preach has. The latter one lasts for a little while, but raises only anger and inferiority complex in the long run. Let him/her free- that is healing. Also, be present, when the other one needs a helping hand. However, do not try to horn in toother’s life – that is creating karma....Trust yourself, make a decision and start your journey. If your answer is - "Well, definitely tomorrow" – it is quite certain that you will not ever start. It is only the stamina of Here and Now, which brings you further. If others see you flying and they try to follow you – its wonderful. If they do not, it is good as well. Accept their choice. Maybe they need a little more suffering to start on their journey. Everybody is amazing. If you see this, you will be happy.